1. Can there be love at first sight?
Sometimes when you meet someone for the first time, you immediately sense an attraction. This happens because your subconscious recognizes similarities you share with that person. This instant recognition is not love but infatuation, but provides an opportunity for you to get to know each other and possibly fall in love. This is nature’s way of bringing two people who share compatibility together. Sometimes this happens, but the people involved miss the opportunity to make a physical connection with each other, but the mental connection is clear.

2. Why do people need love?
Mother’s love, which is considered the highest form of love there is, is associated with care and protection. So when someone feels loved, he/she feels cared for and protected; he/she feels safe. In the days of hunter/gatherers, a man who loved a woman would do whatever it took, including risking his life to provide the necessities for her survival. In return his wife would show her love by providing the comforts of home, such as, treating his wounds, giving him sexual pleasure, and bearing him children.

3. Could you create sexual chemistry?
If at the beginning of a relationship or a short period thereafter you do not feel a sexual attraction for your partner, it is unlikely that this chemistry would develop. Like with everything else, there are exceptions, but with sexual chemistry, you either have it or you don’t. And there are reasons why.

4. How can I tell if I can have a long lasting relationship?
You must honestly evaluate yourself to determine your strengths and weaknesses, and what you have to offer a prospective mate. For example, are you available? Are you of good character, and, are you committed to personal growth? There are ways you can rate yourself. And if you score reasonably high on the eligibility scale, you can confidently consider yourself a good catch.

5. Should I use my friends to help me find my soulmate?
Yes, friends are an excellent source to assist you in your search for your ideal partner. Friends already know you and may have a pretty good idea of your taste. Also, friends, especially those already in a relationship, would want to see you happy. But, there are some precautions you ought to take when dealing with friends. For example, let your friends know your preferences beforehand, this way you can avoid ill feelings and possible embarrassment.

6. How can you tell if he/she truly loves you?
Every relationship is different, but there are some tell-tale signs once you get to know your partner better. By learning these signs, you can be reasonably certain if true love does or does not exist between you and your partner. Sometimes an opportunity may arise when true love can be positively proven, but such cases are rare.