If you've ever wondered why you may be finding it difficult to find your perfect match, it may be time to analyze what it is YOU are offering. To get a great partner, you have to be a great match first. The following questions are aimed at helping you discover your dateability. 

Are you happy?
If you are always happy with positive thoughts, you are at #1 in the list of being a great match. People pick up on unconscious thoughts. If you're not happy, it is pretty safe to say you are permeating the air with your negativity. Find out what would really make you happy, and do it! Positive people are people magnets. Find yourself and you may also find the other half you are looking for.

Do you have future goals, dreams or desires?
A dream is an aspiration for something greater than you have now. It could mean anything, improving yourself, visiting a foreign land, or even owning a rare collector's piece. Whatever your dreams and goals are to you, it is important to have them, and have plans to achieve them. A person who has a goal or dream and is trying to achieve it is showing that they are willing to grow as a person. And everybody would love to be close to such person. It can also show your ability to make something happen for yourself and possibly for a potential partner.

Are you financially stable?
While this is not an end-all criterion but certainly an important one, it does reflect how independent, stable or ambitious you are. If you're not in a comfortable financial position now, you wont be able to concentrate on and keep your date happy as it should be. Think of the ways to increase your monetary flow. You'll feel happier, and be a better match, even if all you have is a plan of action that you are carrying out.

What are you doing for yourself?
Keep yourself busy. If you aren't engaged in any hobbies, self-improvement or other interests, you may be giving signals that you are a boring date. Furthermore, having independent interests will help you keep your personal identity in a relationship, keep your relationship lively and also keep your date actively interested in you.

Are you critical or negative towards other people or life?
Nobody likes negative comments or criticism even if they are true. If you are a happy person with a positive attitude and always appreciating other peoples efforts and their point of view, you will be the best person and a perfect match for your partner. Presenting negative comments in the positive way is a plus point to your personality in winning a heart.